Ling-chan, if we love you, and suddenly one day we find you've become mean, petty, selfish, insensitive, or majorly hot-tempered, you will not be the person we love any more because if we had half a sense and a heart we would never let you get to that stage. Because we love you, and if we ever saw you that way, it would break our hearts. And it's breaking our hearts. So WILL YOU THE HELL STOP WALLOWING AND DO SOMETHING A BIT MORE CONSTRUCTIVE.
And what's wrong with being too sensitive? Unless you're going to make snide remarks about how everyone is against you. Whereupon you are nothing but an excuse for a human being and it's not worth breaking our hearts over you. Because if you never had all this traits, when you have them now, that is the illusion, the FREAKING IMAGE.
Not as if you'll read this anyway.